Baby elephant is bathing

Baby elephant is bathing at Gangarama temple in Colombo.

Erectile dysfunction and the psychology

Today there is a considerable number of men who are suffering from erectile dysfunction in any society. The main factor of causing erectile dysfunction is not physical weakness. Psychological stress is basically causing this. Confused psychological status is the biggest reason behind it

                        There is a number of factors which are causing psychological stress and a complicated situation. First one is living environment of people is too much of artificial. An artificial environment which contains a less amount of natural property can build up an extra psychological stress. Second one is the social condition without gender specifications. Gender specifications are naturally generating a sexual attraction between two sexes and it keeps a healthy sex drive. Naturally both men and women like to identify their opposite sex with unique specifications. A social environment with more gender based specifications is very pleasant and not generating psychological stress. That is how when gender specifications become less, it is generating stress. Generally men like feminine women with feminine gender specifications in any society. Because of femininity of women is naturally corresponding to men’s masculinity. On the other hand non feminine women are sexually unpleasant and generating a huge pressure on men’s psyche. This is how women’s behavior affects on men’s sexuality. These sexually unpleasant things are directly causing men’s sexual dysfunction. The third fact is complicated social situation. Today in any country, the lifestyles are complicated. And the majority of populations are selfish. This kind of a situation is a major fact which is generating psychological stress. Because of there isn’t much of co-operation in the society and people have to struggle for maintaining their lifestyles. Today people have to face problems alone and struggle individually. Finally all of these things are causing to collapse the psychological fitness of men for being active sexually. No meaning of taking medicine without getting rid of the whole background of generating psychological stress. Until we are being honest and accept the true nature of sexuality we cannot get rid of this bad situation. This can be difficult to achieve, because of gender hypocrisy has already driven the society in a crazy manner. And it does not allow people to accept the real nature of sexuality.

How feminism destroys the natural femininity of women.

Nature and the politics

Nationalities and states were formed by people as a result of the progress of civilizations. A state or a country is a specific geographical area which has a unique environmental and weather condition. Within a country there is a unique method of resource utilization and setting up society by the people. That is how that unique population is creating a unique cultural environment.   

            Even today the agricultural lifestyle is more common in most of countries. Farming and animal husbandry are environmental friendly. Co-operation of the society was conspicuous and people considered the social responsibilities as essential things. In the past the political status of all countries were based on social responsibilities and national goals. Within a country the total population followed the leader and the leader was the most responsible person for protecting the nationality with its whole background. That kind of leaders had nature friendly policies for their politics and even for their lives. They took the responsibility of protecting their followers and the natural environment which is attaching to their own culture.

            When the economical systems of most countries become industrialized, the concept of development came out. People became selfish and different groups of people were appeared with different expectations. Privacy became important for them rather than the co-operation of the society. As a result of that politics with responsible leaderships were replaced by the liberal democracy. Liberal democracy doesn’t teach the leaders to do their politics based on nationalities, cultures, morality and nature friendly ideologies. It teaches the leaders to prepare different groups of people to promote their own sets of activities. On the other hand liberal democracy teaches the leaders to satisfy all of the selfish people with different expectations rather than gathering the population around common ideologies. Present generation consider that living close to the nature and traditional lifestyles are obstacles for the progress of their lives. Life styles of the present generation are also complicated and people are not sensitive enough to understand the environmental values, cultural and social positive values. The concept of development is important than protecting environment for the present generation. Development is based on commercial goals. This kind of a situation is prompting present political leaders to do their politics based on non environmental friendly economical systems. No meaning of talking about protecting environment without developing an environmental friendly way of thinking. We must give our priority to live with responsibilities and we must think of establishing responsible leaderships too.

Sexual offenses and children

Why parents love their children? All of children have born as a result of natural sexuality. That is why parents really love their children. If all the children have born without a sexual intercourse between parents, there will not be a real love between parents and their children too. The sexual pleasure which is generating between two parents is strongly attached with the love which is generating between parents and their children.  

            If parents really love their children they must build up their children’s sexuality in a successful healthy way which is natural from the younger ages. Then they will be able to set up the society and also they will be able to create their next generation. Masculinity is a paternal inheritance and it determines the male sexuality as well. On the other hand femininity is a maternal inheritance and it determines the female sexuality as well. That is how parents of a person become the most responsible people for determining that particular person’s sex drive. Shaping the gender rolls of children with correct specifications is the main factor of this. Real fathers must rise up their sons in a masculine way and they must let mothers to rise up their daughters in a feminine way too. Keep in mind; children will become adults in future. Parents with social responsibilities must teach their children to accept the natural sexuality from the younger ages. They must teach their children what there must be an acceptable sexual life style which is natural in the society too. Then they will realize that they must spend their lives according to those particular conditions.

                        We must protect children from sexually abusing. That is for protecting their sexual life in future and that is not for joy of people who are trying to deform the natural sexuality. It is wrong if a grown man sexually abused an underage girl, when that particular girl is following a real feminine way of life according to the society and if she is accepting the natural sexual life style. But if children are being sexually abusing by homosexuals, that is too dangerous. If we considered an incident of a man sexually abusing an underage girl and, if we considered another incident of a gay man is sexually abusing an underage boy or a lesbian is abusing an underage girl, these incidents are not similar. First one is wrong just because of it is causing to collapse the acceptable sexual lifestyle of the society. But the second incident is wrong, not just because of causing to collapse the sexual lifestyle; it is not the natural way of sex and it is abnormal. So that is why it is too dangerous. We must protect the children from sexually abusing them by adults while we are protecting the natural sexuality and the acceptable sexual lifestyle.  

Badulla – Colombo train – Sri Lanka.

The train is traveling through a natural forest in Haputale area. It is traveling from Badulla to Colombo. This is a nice trip that can enjoy a lot.

Buddhism and the nature

This is a very brief description about Buddhism and the nature. Buddhism never teaches to behave against the nature. According to the Buddhism, we must accept it. Buddhism teaches deeply about the weak points of human mind and human nature. Human mind is little mysterious. It is not satisfying with any thing. That is why we are always trying to create new things. People are manipulating their minds towards the infinite. Finally they become disgusted when they are unable to achieve their objectives. People become happy when they are successful in any way but the success does not exist as it is.

                                    According to the Buddhism, people become disgusted because of they deem non eternal things as eternal without getting understand the real nature of them. And also they strongly desire that things. Buddhism teaches that the concepts of self and mine are appearing due to this situation. The soul (Anima) of a person originates in that way. And it continues too. Life of the person continues after death due to reborn.

According to the Buddhism anyone cannot prevent death, but everyone can prevent continuing life after death and reborn. It is called attain to “nibbana”. However this is not an easy task. Buddhist clergy have to follow special procedures while expecting “nibbana”. And Buddhist laity has to follow an acceptable life style according to consents which are essential for the existence of society.

                         Here I want to point out the basic concepts of acceptable Buddhist life style. Mainly Buddhists have no concepts of thriving in a linear way towards the infinity.  Buddhist people have to live with a collection of consents which are closely related to the nature. Buddhists must accept the natural way of changing any thing rather than hardly trying to change the real nature of them. We must follow an environmental friendly way of resource utilizing which is not causing to collapse the balances of nature. Buddhist people must follow an acceptable sexual life style which is close to the nature too. Family foundation is very important for the Buddhist society. Both paternity and maternity are important concepts of our society. That means Buddhist society must accept the masculinity of men and as well as the femininity of women. According to the Buddhist way of thinking, both masculine and feminine gender specifications are essential features of the society. The other most significant feature is Buddhists have no human centric way of thinking. Buddhists consider that the entire world of beings, including animals and plants is essential for the existence of human society. That is why Buddhist people are psychologically balanced. Buddhist way of thinking is well balanced too.