Thoughts of the New Year

Like in the past, most of people will try to improve their activities which are not nature friendly in this year too. Especially people will promote environmental destructive activities related to the development and industrialization.

            We must leave out the whole concept of development from our mind and promote a set of nature friendly human activities which is really progressive. We have to defeat a number of destructive ideologies like liberalism, post modernism and feminism too. The other worst concept which we must get rid of is liberal democracy. We must improve our sensitivity of identifying the facts which are really helpful to increase the lifetime of the community. And we should promote sensitive wise people who have a wide scope of thinking. We must think that how we can live with social responsibilities rather than talking about rights too. Then we can think of a better way of progress and we will be able to create new leaderships with new leaders who are better thinkers for change the way of thinking as well.  

New year religious program

                                        

                                         New year religious program held on January 1st 2012

Gender (sexual) hypocrisy and the society

Gender (Sexual) hypocrisy is one of bigger threats for the long time existence of human civilization. It is a huge obstruction for obtaining the natural goodness of sexuality. It generates stress in any community too.

            According to the hominid evolution sexuality is an important part that we must discuss about. Human sexuality is a powerful factor which is determining the way of establishing human civilization. That is why it is important that gender specifications and matching up male and female sex drives. Even though gender specifications are human creations, nature supports and promotes them. Because of they are accepting by the nature. Matching up male and female sexualities is an essential part of any culture, and within a culture there is an acceptable sexual lifestyle too. It must be natural as well.

            Family is the primary unit of any human civilization. The concept of family is based on natural order of sexuality and especially the sexual attraction between two sexes. The concepts of paternity and maternity are primarily based on sexual reproduction. And they are heavily depend on masculinity and the femininity which are determining by the gender based specifications and sexual characteristics. In any culture, parents rise their children up with gender specifications and also with a great responsibility of the children’s sexuality. All of responsible parents want their children to grow up in a heterosexual way. That is why fathers want their sons to be masculine and mothers want their daughters to be feminine. Generally all the men and women respect the acceptable sexual lifestyle and the natural sexuality. Any one who has natural feelings do not discredit the gender specifications and the nature of sexuality. In any culture there is a set of consents related to sexuality for protecting the acceptable sexual lifestyle which is natural. This is known as the sexual morality.

                   However when the gender hypocrisy comes out, some people are trying to assume them as better people by discrediting the natural sexuality. They are thinking that it is a part of morality and they think that they can show their virtue by doing so. This kind of people generally do not like to accept the real nature of sexuality, but they want to enjoy sex. This is hypocrisy and some of them have complicated sex desires. We must critically discuss about the hypocrisy of men and the hypocrisy of women too. People who are honestly accepting the natural order of sexuality are also accepting the gender specifications of their opposite sex. They build up their families with a set of consents which are based on sexuality and the gender specifications. The important feature is that parents orientate their children in a heterosexual way. But when it comes to hypocrisy, the hypocritical men do not accept the natural femininity of women. And hypocritical women do not accept men who are really masculine and natural male sexuality as well. All of us can see well that how some fathers rise their daughters up in their way without femininity. We can see also how they teach their daughters to deem that the natural male sexuality and male sex drive are obstructions for the progress of their lives. On the other hand we can see that hypocritical women are always opposing gender specifications and gender based categorizing of human activities while they are talking about the gender based violence and violence against women. Finally all of hypocrites are stealing words especially related to sexual offenses and sexual morality for covering up their hypocrisy. They are thinking that they are virtuous. But a situation like this blinds the whole society and drives the population towards a false virtue which is not actually helping to protect the society.

Negombo beach, Sri Lanka.

Negombo beach is another place where people can enjoy a lot; Negombo is situated in the western province of Sri Lanka.                                  

Baby elephant is bathing

Baby elephant is bathing at Gangarama temple in Colombo.

Erectile dysfunction and the psychology

Today there is a considerable number of men who are suffering from erectile dysfunction in any society. The main factor of causing erectile dysfunction is not physical weakness. Psychological stress is basically causing this. Confused psychological status is the biggest reason behind it

                        There is a number of factors which are causing psychological stress and a complicated situation. First one is living environment of people is too much of artificial. An artificial environment which contains a less amount of natural property can build up an extra psychological stress. Second one is the social condition without gender specifications. Gender specifications are naturally generating a sexual attraction between two sexes and it keeps a healthy sex drive. Naturally both men and women like to identify their opposite sex with unique specifications. A social environment with more gender based specifications is very pleasant and not generating psychological stress. That is how when gender specifications become less, it is generating stress. Generally men like feminine women with feminine gender specifications in any society. Because of femininity of women is naturally corresponding to men’s masculinity. On the other hand non feminine women are sexually unpleasant and generating a huge pressure on men’s psyche. This is how women’s behavior affects on men’s sexuality. These sexually unpleasant things are directly causing men’s sexual dysfunction. The third fact is complicated social situation. Today in any country, the lifestyles are complicated. And the majority of populations are selfish. This kind of a situation is a major fact which is generating psychological stress. Because of there isn’t much of co-operation in the society and people have to struggle for maintaining their lifestyles. Today people have to face problems alone and struggle individually. Finally all of these things are causing to collapse the psychological fitness of men for being active sexually. No meaning of taking medicine without getting rid of the whole background of generating psychological stress. Until we are being honest and accept the true nature of sexuality we cannot get rid of this bad situation. This can be difficult to achieve, because of gender hypocrisy has already driven the society in a crazy manner. And it does not allow people to accept the real nature of sexuality.

How feminism destroys the natural femininity of women.